She was cheating before she left the marriage...you just didn't catch her. What she's telling you is a bunch of baloney. If you didn't look so desperate to have her she wouldn't be busting you so much. She is acting like after a year as though it's as easy as her deciding to come back. Next time tell her you haven't even decided if you want her back and get off the phone. Give her time to mull over the thought of losing you.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
