Your H trying to get stuff on you now will only serve to hasten his exit stage left (with a dainty size 4 foot print on his ass). You've done nothing wrong, and you have nothing to worry about, your family, your friends and the whole cyberworld are behind you. You go go go go girl !!! (((K sunshine)))
On another note I think you first posted to me around the end of 2007 and that post gave me such a lift when I was really down, at this stage in my cycle I pretty much know the direction that I am going and I don't lean on these boards so much for support but I have stuck around cos I wanted to make sure you were ok and you knew the direction life was gonna take you. Life can sometimes be sh*t (in the short term)but your path now lays before you and I just pray it is paved with gold for you and the kids.
Take care
Lan
PS: John (210) to my surprise you also were posting to me around this time.