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Thanks, but it is at the Cobb Energy Ctr, near the Galleria. Bad part is its at 2:00 pm, so maybe an early dinner, but most likely a lunch. Vinings is real close to us (thinking Canoe maybe).


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OOOOHHH...Canoe.....YUMMY!


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Well, if I get bit#*ed at again for opening a bag of friggin spinach she bought for a friend's wedding this weekend (oh, well maybe you should have told me!) I might take her to Burger King. Just venting. She is NOT attractive when she does that.


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Well, if I get bit#*ed at again for opening a bag of friggin spinach she bought for a friend's wedding this weekend (oh, well maybe you should have told me!) I might take her to Burger King. Just venting. She is NOT attractive when she does that.


Never seen spinach on a Bridal Registry before... wink


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Yeah! She agreed to buy that for their reception - 2nd M (yes, this is someone she prob spoke to for "advice"). Here's what I'm gonna do: head out to costco and get another bag. Not going to tell her, just gonna put it in the fridge. She either sees this as (a) H did a nice thing or (b) feels guilty for snapping at me. Either way, she gets her f'ing spinach and I don't care!

I know, in the grand scheme of things, not a big deal. Its just another in a long list (not keeping one) of times she snaps at me for things I was supposed to have figured out by my innate powers of esp!!

Ok, I'm better now. Anyone disagree with the plan. Hell, maybe I'll get craaazzzyyyy and get 2, 2 bags!!!! Woooo hoooo!

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See if they have poultry at Costco to go with the spinach. You know... CROW! smile (for her, of course. Not for you)


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Ha! I'm laughing about it now. Would love to see her reaction when she opens the refrigerator. Did the 2 bags mate and have a new bag? Coulda swore I bought 2 and H opened 1 last night. Wait a minute...

At least I got some coffee beans - costco has really good coffee beans.


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Hey GIMA

I suggest opening the remaining bags of spinach and make some great dip. Your W has no right to be bitching at you...set boundaries. My W tried that a few times with me and I put it to an immediate stop. I didn't have a right to disrespect her and vice versa. Does your W respect you? My W responded to firmness. Remember, women respond to strong confident men. You don't have to be rude when setting boundaries. What happened to no more nice guy? What would Gucci say in such a situation?

Just trying to help...not trying to be mean. When you mentioned your "nice guy" complex, it became very obvious to me. Is it time for a 180? You don't realize how much leverage you really have in your situation. Your W is not going anywhere any time soon. I also bet that there are plenty of women in your area that would consider you a great catch. You have come a long way since your first post.

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Wow, GIMA, did your W call mine and tell her to be in a bad mood?

Oh well, do something for you that can make you feel better, though looks like you already are!


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Thanks. Trust me, it wasn't enough to warrant a boundary talk. She just made one comment with a tone of voice I don't care for. It pi$$ed me off more than anything (maybe some repressed anger needing to get out), and had I said anything at the moment, it would not have been nice. Trust me, right now, if she crossed a line, I would not have a problem pointing that out.

It actually makes me chuckle now.


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