I am now catapulted right back into limboland. W doesn't want to be M'd, but is not making steps toward D. She is quietly putting out feelers (no overt external R's), but backs down quickly when I call her on it.
It's not where I want to be, but it's OK between now and Retro in Sept.
I am now starting to agree with my W, however. "After Retro, if nothing has changed, a change needs to be made."
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.