Thanks Donna,

That makes me feel better and it was what I wanted.

Today my former receptionist (who I've always really liked and treated her daughter like gold) posted something on Facebook about the new studio and a followup comment was added by one of the girls who worked for me. I found it tasteless and hurtful. Oh God - why am I so sensitive? and why are people so mean?

My sister wrote a reply addressing both of them (she has known and liked them both for years) asking them to be respectful and realize that we haven't even had the party and perhaps they can keep such comments to themselves. I think it took courage to do that.

I am almost inclined to write them an email and ask them to tone it down a bit. That I wish none of them anything but the best. But somehow I worry that even that might start a huge fiasco.

No winning in this game of losing.

I feel hurt and sad all over.

Barb