I agree B. There is still a long way to go if anything even were to come of this. That's kind of why I thought maybe I should not be so available, and I really need to do more in regards to making ends meet too. I'm not saying be a jerk or anything. Just put some more space between us for now. For me.
LOL!! T2.
I'm not going for a ride on any mlc train. I'm not gonna freakin lose it or anything. Maybe I could hook up with her if I did though.
Yes, there is a ton of other crap that is going that has got me down. That is my main reason for wanting to distance myself more from all of this.
Understandable Trapt. I was trying for the laugh. Sometimes life is just too serious. I think I needed that laugh just as much as you.
Now, in an hour I will be sitting in my front yard with a 5th of something and getting blitzed. As I was cleaning up around my office here about 15 minutes ago I found an ad written by my boss for an assistant. He even went out and got a different post office box to keep it from me. I don't think he has actually posted it but I guess this is my wake up call. Guess along with my yard sale I should put "whole house sale".
Do it girl. Put for sale on everything. Hell, I wonder if I can sell my apartment to make ends meet... Nope. don't think that's gonna work. I need a plan B. And C. maybe D.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
My house is going to echo when you walk in it. If it wasn't for the girls I would have gotten rid of it long ago. I just don't know what I will do or where I will go. I won't give up without a fight though. Hell, it is just stuff and a house. I sometimes wish I didn't get it in the divorce.
I'm sorry to hear about what you saw. That has to suck. I hear you about selling everything. I'm in the process of doing just that right now.
Soco, No worries there won't be any train rides!!
I'm at a place right now that I really need to start working on saving me again. Not so much from all this MLC BS, but financially.I received some bad news this week. I have to get through this, there is no other option. Right now I need to deal with all of this. For me and my children. I'm in a real fix in more ways the one.
When it comes to my X, I need to step back. It has been really tough trying to deal with her and all of this other stuff.
The facts are that I have only been divorced for about four months, a relatively short time in the grand scheme of things. Yes my X is showing positive signs toward something. Who knows what? Another fact is that this relationship she is in, is a joke, but she has him around the kids a lot and also has him over to her family's place. There is more to it than she is letting on. It's more than just "dating."
I am well aware that she is incapable of a healthy R. Nevertheless she is involved with him.
I have to focus on what I'm going through right now and continue to live life like she is never coming back.
I sometimes think I would be better off getting on the MLC train. The ride has to be better than the one I'm on. Then I think of you guys and realize I'm not alone on this journey.
Yes Trapt, I am selling everything but the essentials but where does that leave me next month? What happens when there is nothing else for us to sell? Ugh!
Trapt, all you can do right now is live your life for you and your kids. Focus on that and let everything else just fall into place as it happens.
Thanks for letting me hitch a ride on your thread.
SoCo, I'm beginning to wonder what is important and what isn't any more.
They say God only gives us what we can handle...well, I hope he stops giving me more and more because I am at my limit.
Yep, I know how both of you feel. If I don't get money from J this weekend I am seriously going to have to live off of my credit card for the rest of the month. Like, pay two bills and buy groceries and gas. I am out of money and only get paid once a month. It's been slowly getting worse the last three months that he has been not paying the c/s. Down farther into the hole.... All of this is sucky stuff.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Oh well I am reading all of this, and remembering the last two classes I took dealing with behavior and psycho problems. Hmmm. An interesting question is that if a person is theoretically mentally unbalanced and commits a crime, should they automatically be forgiven for the crime because they were not in the right state of mind? What if they do it again?
On that note, just because our respective idiots are going are theoretically mentally unbalanced, does that mean that they should automatically be forgiven because they were not in the right state of mind? What if they do it again?
Food for thought.
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Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
