I did last night bring up the subject of where we are going to live last night.
Followed SD's advice and approached it from the angle of we have to move in 2 weeks and even though would love you to be with us, if you don't want to that is okay but I need to know so that I can arrange for somewhere for D and I to go to. I said it in a gentle non confronting manner, no anger or anything, no begging.
He just looked at me and then got all sad looking again and sat there staring as though his thoughts were somewhere else. I then got up and went about doing some things that had to be done.
He has said nothing since.
Picking up the boxes for packing today, then getting my hair done just for the hell of it. Hopefully going to dinner with friends. He has taken a change of clothes with him this morning, so he is obviously heading to the pub after work with mates I think but who knows.
