Well, obviously not if she points out all changes then asks why I couldn't have been that way before... as if I was given some sort of a chance or something.
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Who do you want to be around her?
I'll I can be is me. If this is the start of some new friendship, it has already been tainted with a pretty big and obvious lie. How else do you look at it?
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Cause you say this and then post how great your interactions are afterward....
Little confusing to us in the cheap seats bro...
The view from the front row isn't any less confusing. Yeah, our interactions do go really well. She is nice and a little different, however all of the double talk and code language makes no sense, and the lie from the other day makes me want to stop dead in my tracks.
It doesn't put me in a positive place to hear her still lie and then act like we are good friends. If it was anyone else I would be stepping way back too.
For me to sit there with a smile on my face and be all friendly while listening to a flat out lie just sounds all wrong to me at this point. Why should I let my guard down at all or be open to a friendship when she is still showing me that she can't tell the truth?
I just bit the tip of my tongue off trying to not say anything regarding the last few posts. I will continue standing on the sidelines even though it is getting harder and harder...
Hey T, you know we love ya, right? So, we dont want to see you let your anger cloud your decisions.
So, I thought you decided to just go with the flow a bit. She is just starting counseling and beginning to explore some issues.
That all takes time. Nothing is going to happen overnight.
And you need to decide if you are willing to see if this goes anywhere or not. But if you decide you want to, you have to accept the fact that everything is not going to get resolved in a couple of months.
You dont know what is going on in her head.
I say, go with it, let it flow, see where it takes ya while still working on you. But that's just me.
I just bit the tip of my tongue off trying to not say anything regarding the last few posts. I will continue standing on the sidelines even though it is getting harder and harder...
Thanks Mach but I think my score sheet isn't all that great so I better stay back a little longer. Everyone is giving good advice. You know me, I tend to lean the other way and I don't want anyone to think I'm being negative.
I do believe Trapt is sending mixed signals but from what I have read he is getting mixed signals as well. Before long I'm afraid HE will be sitting on the MLC train next to his wife. A person can only handle so much before they snap.
