K4D Rising #4

[MrBond]

"Regardless of the mistakes that were made on both sides of the M and mostly were mine, it does not change the fact that a covenant M was created. You can call it judgemental all you want. But our M was valid and we do have a covenant. I'm not sure why that is so hard to understand."

I think you missed the whole point of the post. I'm not saying that your choice to fight for your M is judgemental. Your ATTITUDE towards her is judgemental.

You are the one that is not understanding. You seem to only pick out the points or hear the things you want to hear.

"I also do not pursue her anymore or contact her. I leave her alone."

Doesn't look that way to me. She kept telling you to leave her alone, but you contact her any way.

And about the "Rejoice Ministries" stuff. I've visited that site numerous times to get motivated. You only pick out the stuff that you want to hear about standing for your M.

Did you read the posts on their about showing compassion to your W? That's what my whole post was about.

I never said you were the devil. Geez dude, you need to lighten up.

If at the very least, answer this...can you treat your W with compassion? Which means, can you see things through her eyes right now? Imagine if you were her and you saw you doing and hearing all of the things you were saying to her from her point of view. Can you do that?