... copied from one of the posts that JenJam came up with ....
All very good advice. Read it (multiple times) very slowly.......
Your actions right now need to be unpredictable. H says something that hurts you, your natural reaction may be to fire back. Will that draw him closer or push him farther down the D path? Will the statement "I am sorry you feel that way." be a better response?
Enjoy ML. Next time, surprise him. Is sex the same old same old? DO something completely new. Browse the self help section of the book store for ideas.
Enjoy the moment without fearing the future.
Right now you are competing with greener grass. Water your grass to make it greener than the competition....
Think about H complaints. These are clues to what you can change.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
