WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[MrBond]

cipa,

while I understand what you're going through, especially since it happened to me, just take some time to breathe.

Get to the point where you can calm your emotions enough to make rational decisions. It's like the DNA test on your son. You were driven by emotion and not thinking things through.

You wanted to know how we get over the betrayal and stuff? Well it comes from you making a choice. You choose to not let it run your life and emotions. You choose to not let your hate destroy the rest of your emotions. You choose to not let your anger control you. And you choose when and if you want to forgive.

It doesn't happen overnight. It doesn't happen in a month or maybe even years. But it will happen.

Before fasttracking any decisions, take a few days alone or with your kids and just live. Eventually the clouds will part and you'll get clarity.