I was going to suggest you meet/drop off kids w/H rather than sit at home waiting for H to show up. If you do that once or twice, maybe he will get the idea. Just a suggestion.
And, my philosophy on the children thing is "it takes a village" the more exposure they have to others the better for the children. I have so much help from family and friends and really don't know where I would be without them. And, they like the little guy even my nephews who are teenagers. Yes it should be the father's responsbility, but we know how some father's are, they just don't get it!
