Stuck,

I admitted my mistakes. I also do not pursue her anymore or contact her. I leave her alone. She contacts me.

Regardless of the mistakes that were made on both sides of the M and mostly were mine, it does not change the fact that a covenant M was created. You can call it judgemental all you want. But our M was valid and we do have a covenant. I'm not sure why that is so hard to understand.

You can call me the devil all you want for me standing for our covenant. I know I made mistakes. I repented of them and do daily. It doesn't change that I still stand for our M. I'm not forcing her to stay in it. I'm not doing anything to her. But I myself am standing for it.

Do I understand why she wanted separation? OF COURSE I DO. SHE NEEDED IT.

Do I understand moving forward in an adulterous lifestyle? I understand it is what she wants. But it doesn't make it right. Am I her judge? No. I am simply stating my position on where I am standing and why I am standing. If it is judgemental to defend my stance, so be it.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...