Ok, so I'm getting good... got my own signature and everything : )

Well, this morning I told H when he showed up that I would call if I was going to get home after 5 due to a possible appt (never mentioned where I was going - just beauty stuff). I decided not to call him today (yeah for me) and only tell him if he called. Well, he just called to remind me that I don't have class tonight. So we chatted a couple of mins and then I told him I'd be a little late and, oh by the way, could he watch the girls on the 20th and 26th because I had plans. He said sure, I live close, anytime you need me just let me know.

I also said we needed to set up a schedule of when he wanted to see them since he's going back to teaching next week and won't be with them during the day. I did buy 2 concert tix to one of our fav groups in Oct. I plan on 1) not telling him about the concert until it is sold out (he may find out on his own, but not from me and 2) depending on our sitch either taking him or someone else and asking him to babysit. Ok, maybe not but at any rate I'm going and I sure as h&%$ don't want see him there with OW. My new reality is strange, but I'm getting used to it.


HIW
M 35
H 37
D 5, D 2
Married 1996
Dating 1992
Met 1988
EA/PA started March 2009
Bomb 6/16/2009
Separated 6/23/2009

"Once you choose hope, anything's possible."