One more thing, a very good friend of mine from high school has been complaining about this since she got married. One child is in the Navy and the other is a sophomore in high school. Her H never changed and never will either. They've been married 23 years and she's still complaining about the same things she did when she was first married. I know this doesnt' help, but do you want to hold onto this for that long? I mean accept the situation or not, but don't let it take your life over.
