A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Thanks, IW.

That's pretty much what I am doing. Before, I would take every bad mood of his personally - surely it meant that he was upset or unhappy with ME. Well, BS to that. It's not all about me. (Imagine that!) Before, I would then pester him with "Are you ok? What's wrong? You're mad at me, aren't you?" etc. Not helpful.

So this is one of my larger 180s.

If it's about me, it's his job to tell me. Unless I am told; I am free to assume it's not about me. And if it's not about me, it probably also falls under the heading of 'not my problem to solve.'

Kinda freeing, eh?