Hi JR, Sorry about that - T - means therapy. Is there any chance that you might be able to get a webcam for you and the boys? That's something I've already worked out with my S12 for when he leaves - that way he and S2 can still see each other often.
I sometimes get caught in that same kind of thinking - just looking at my life and wondering how on earth all this happened to my family - and then I realize that there must be ways in which this is necessary - because there are certainly many, many thing that I had not faced, come to terms with, or realized before this happened...and I'm now facing all of it at once...but trying to take it at a realistic pace so it doesn't overwhelm me.
I like the power of "Make memories." I've been saying it to myself a lot these last few days...