She came home & told me she hadn't been going out that much & that there was nothing else wrong. It was all my reaction to it that was wrong and now because she can't stand me she is going out more often. Basically it is all my fault.
Her voice changing, internet / texting / on the phone constantly when at home, kids not getting any focus, hardly any cooking / cleaning, going out 1 per week till 2-4 am plus another night till 10-12 for 6 weeks in a row. During all this time I'd been taking care of the kids. Now the only difference is that she takes the kids out with her once per week and goes out by herself 2 times per week till 2-4 minimum.
Prior to that she also never went out in her opinion - however in reality she has always has gone out - it just hasn't been every week. It has been once every couple of months she has gone out late to which I never had a problem. She has also gone out for dinner / coffee reguarly and there was never any problem.
Geez its hard dealing with the revisionist history.
