I see you asking many questions and that is good. What I was wondering is this - what do your guts tell you? Are you ever going to be happy because from where I sit, it seems that what you see is what you get. Your H has no incentive to change.
#4 whatever - lmao!
As for his lack of physical desire...what the hell is wrong with this friggin guy...have his eyes been gouged out or what...I thought guys like hot chicks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!