It's been well over three years since my Wife dropped the bomb on me, a looooong three years I might add. I have been trying my best to follow the advise of others but it seems that no matter what I do or how I act, she seems to slip away farther and farther. Recently we have had discussions about the whole event when she dropped the bomb on me. What's so weird to me is that she has a totally different memory of what was said. It was the most devistating day of my life, a day I will never forget. She told me she cared about but just really did not feel close to me anymore. She told me that she it was not anything I had done but that I "just don't do it for her anymore" Years have past now and she has become so cold towards me. She tells me all the time she is going to leave but never does. She says now that she did not say any of those things and that she hoping I would woo her into feeling better about me. This whole dissconnect thing is tearing my family to pieces. Is it possible to ever get back to a normal life?
