You can "read", you can "understand", you can be paralyzed with fear, you can "stand", but you will cooling your heels forever.
Look for Fightingfit's threads and take her advice to heart. It is the best I've ever read here. Your wife needs good shaking-up from a BIG 180 from you.
Also, anytime I read "EA" on this forum, I just automatically think, "BULLSH!T!!" Because I know that the infidel is f*cking her "friend." And I just love how these liars say the most ridiculous things to insult the betrayed spouse. "Nothing really happened", "We just kissed", "We only did it ONCE." I think the old "we only did it once" is my favorite.
After reading here for quite awhile, I see how many of us being jerked around. We allow it because we're "scared." Well, enough of that crap.
I think it would be a good idea for you to tell her that if she doesn't END THIS IMMEDIATELY, you are more than willing to kick her to the curb and go for custody of the kids. They certainly don't need a lying, cheating, bi-polar mother for a role model.
