We could debate this all day. God teaches about "free will". Your W does not want to be with you. Unless you can prove to the church that she is possessed by the Devil and is not in control of her will/soul then you can not force someone to Love you let alone be married to you.
Like the saying goes " sometimes if you Love someone or something enough you have to let them go..."
How much do you love your W Kevin??? Enough to make her happy??? Enough to give up CONTROL??? This doesn't mean forever... But it could....
