With the finances it is more of a reeling him in a bit and trying to get him to work with me and be on the same page like we used to be. I used to be able to discuss things with him and let him know where we stood but then for the past few months he didn't seem to care at all and any discussion would be me being "controlling." I will turn it over to God but it is hard because I know whatever I say may very well go in one ear with H(if it actually makes it that far) and out the other.
Over the past few years due to H's busy work schedule I have gradually pretty much totally taken over the finances and I see that as a God thing, and one of the many ways I see things laid out to prepare me for what I am having to deal with now. Who knows where we would be if he was still in charge of it all!
