I thought your comments on the OW and your "gut" were interesting. That is the same thing here. I have snooped and found no evidence of a PA at all (but yes I know I could be way wrong). Short of going through his phone which I haven't done and frankly have lost interest in doing, I have no proof of an EA other than my gut/women's intuition/call it what you will that there was/is anything going on. We have had a discussion (and yes I know they lie) and he claims there was nothing but I also let him know what I felt would be "inappropriate" as far as "friendship" goes, etc. Anyway, I think that if there was/is anything going on it is either over or has cooled off considerably given the changes in the way he is treating me. But really who knows . . .
