#1 problem with this r is that my h works too damn much!!!
I understand that people have to work..and I knew when I married h that he worked alot. I suppose I didn't realize just how much he worked until having children...or rather it seems that he works more hours now. Could it be that he works more becuase of the children and that I don't work? or does he work more to avoid being home with me and the children..my guess a combination of both.
it drives me mad that I'm expected to be some happy little woman when I am left alone with two little ones from 6amish to 6pm ish at best ever day of the week and then on saturdays h again leaves at 7amish and may return by 1 if we are lucky but usually it is not until later...today it will be 3 so he says wich means later...during the week I can deal with it..after all everyone else's daddy is at work too..but on sat when your kid is looking to play with friends and can't cause there all doing stuff with their dad's it really blows..not to mention the fact that I need a break!!
read sage's thread this am and I must say I am a tad resentfull...heck I've had a gift certificate for a full day treatment manicure, pedicure, facial, lunch, hair & make up etc for a year...ya think I have time to use it? heck I don't even have time to go to the friken dentist! and sure h is after all working..but to be honest anyone who has ever stayed home with little ones knows work is relaxing and heck ya get a coffe break and are allowed to go to the bathroom by yourself with the door closed and no one is trying to put toilet paper into the pottie while you're trying to do your business.
Ya I know they'll grow up but the damage is being done...the resentment towards h for having a life in the world while I'm tired and having snot rubbed on me all day may never go away.
