I asked in a previous post if anyone knew of someones spouse finding this board and reading their respective spouses posts? I wonder?
I had that, and it gets easier as time goes on. One thing I found out, is I was asking him ?s, and then he would try to answer me. I really think he was trying but he didn't know the answers himself. He would tell me one thing, and it would be completely opposite what he told me a month or 2 before. Just really really confused. And stuff like his wanting the D had nothing to do with his girlfriend he'd been dating for a couple months (and probably an EA before that). They don't know the answers themselves.
I've been here over a year now, and I've seen a few people tell their WAS about the site. I think that's the opposite of what's recommended here; this is supposed to be a place of support for you. I've seen I think about 2 people have their WAS find out about the site, maybe they left their browser open to this page or something? The moderators here deleted their threads/posts.
I know my H did a search on me to find out what sites I'm registered with (they emailed me about that) and then I did my own search and this site didn't pop up although some like classmates and stuff did. I don't think it would make a difference if my WAS did find out. I wouldn't tell him, but maybe he'd learn something from the site? Karen
