How's your son? Are he and H close? I remember reading that you would have to mention H spending time w/him. Teens are a challenge! Having a D18, makes me pray daily that my boys will be easier!!!
So, Unresolved Crisis - when S15 was a toddler. And, Bomb #1 - when S15 was a new teen. And, Bomb #2 - last year
Regarding the OW, did you snoop and find out about them? How hard did you try to get proof that they were not more?
Gosh, your list is interesting. I see snippets of my H in there.
I know what you mean about how you are treated. I have had absolutely no evidence of an OW, and only a few moments of "thoughts" that way, but the treatment is a big indicator of "in, out, or trying to be in..."
My H is an ignorer, too. I could write a five sentence fully loaded email, and/or I could write a novel. No reply. The only time he responds to me is if I fly off the handle (only happened once since I have been DB'ing - since late November, 2008). So, if I don't fly off the handle, I don't know sh*t! Makes for a screwed up existence.
So, what's next, if he's not going to respond? It appears your home is calm, and there aren't a lot of fireworks. I assume you've 180's the issues he complained about... You seem to be a veteran!
Didn't know you posted before. Will go read FG's thread.
It's nice to have supportive buds!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
