Don't let her reaction get to you - although it sounds like you aren't. It was probably somewhat unbalancing for her to not be invited right away, and she may have felt you invited her as an afterthought. I'm pretty sure this was part of Coach's plan though, so don't run in to fix it.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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