I can't trust anything she says. She says it's casual, however from what I see it doesn't look that way.
No, I wouldn't rule out starting a friendship with someone new who was "dating." It's a little different, sort of apples to oranges I guess. My guard wouldn't be way up with someone else. With my X it has to be. The trust has just been destroyed.
Three days ago she was still trying to say that this is something new with om, that they just started seeing each other a couple of months ago. I know for a fact she has been seeing him for a year now.(while we were still married.)
I just can't trust her. Not without seeing things change. If he is still in the picture, I see this as just more of the same ole same ole.