CIPA, why? Why couldn't you forgive her? I'm working on forgiving my H. I know our situations are different....H and I were definitely separated before he did the crap he did, but really, let's be honest, it's still cheating because we are married. But why? I know not everyone can, but I was wondering what your reasons are.
If it was just sex/lust it would be one matter.
She fell in love with this guy (the emails are so lovey dovey, just like we used to do when we started dating). She has been lying to my face to her conduct, stringing me a long, blaming me. I have too much respect for myself to be a whipping boy nor a backup plan.
She said she had been trying before she moved out, but how do you try when you are continuing to have sex/love someone else.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
