He called back, I let voicemail pick it up. Said that it was fine for me to stay out there by myself and that he would probably be by at some point and we needed to talk. He said not to call him back and he would call me tomorrow. I just texted him back thank you, I just need some time alone to think.
By myself? I wonder if he meant that I would not be staying there with him (obviously!) or that he did not want ME to have company? He did ask when I first brought it up if I needed a private place to have someone over. Whatever.
It was nice to have the house to myself. I did not call him but did text him back that I was sorry that I jumped to conclusions about them sleeping in my bed, but that it was just one of those hot button issues about respect (my kids are another such issue) that I have a hard time being rational about. I apologized if I made his evening uncomfortable. I did not get a response and really did not expect one.
This morning I called early-ish so I would hopefully get his voicemail and told him how much I appreciated being able to stay at the house. It was just peaceful, had a sense of normalcy and let me get off the "crazy train" for a little while. Told him that if I was taking his space I would not stay there again, but if he didn't mind I would like to stay there the next two nights as well.
