Well, that's interesting. He acts like he has something, but he really doesn't, I think. Like you said, the second he told you that he wanted to try, you dropped it.
I do think it surprised him. From everything you've said, he took you for granted, I don't really think it ever crossed his mind that someone else might love you. Of course we all know how wrong that is.
I'm assuming you've sealed the security breach, and the account is secure now?
