That is your decision to make but can I ask you something, as I too have struggled with this in my own way.
When you met her, or any woman for that matter that you might want to get to know, were you really concerned if there was another person? No I'm not talking about a husband or serious other person, but someone who seems casual as she seems to say this OM is? Would you rule out a friendship with any woman who was "dating" or is this something only for W?
Not condemning because to be honest, I don't want to be friends with H if he has someone either, but....
Because if you really are starting over, this might be a bit much in the beginning...Just a thought
Last edited by cat04; 08/13/0903:22 PM.
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