I'm proud of your outlook right now. He knows you were emotionally involved w/someone else b/c you told him you were. Technically, you had an "emotional affair" where you allowed yourself to love a man who truly cared for you.
H on the other hand, had a full-blown affair where he was living a double life.
Now he's mad at you? He's just trying to justify his own actions. He'll continue to run, blame and point fingers. As I've personally come to experience, he's going to continue to do whatever he can to avoid taking a cold, hard look into his own life, issues, and actions.
It is far more easy to blame you than it is to challenge himself to find the flaws and fix them within his own skin.
