Isn't it just CREEPY how you and I seem to cycle up and down together...and for SURE for both of us it's not feeling well that's adding fuel to the fire.
I won't even TOUCH the issue, as that's still a sore spot for me...actually, maybe I will, since you mentioned my H in a flattering light above.
LL which is better: to say "this is just how I am" (grrr!!!) or "I'm WORKING on it"...and then ZIPOLA!!
I feel very strongly that you feel taken advantage of...there is NO LL time...
So just WHAT will it take to make that happen??? Your H does sound rather caught in a June Cleaver view of what a W and Mom should be and THAT needs some shaking up!!!
Will ponder...you too!
Shiny
P.S. Any bets we'll feel more "up" when we're not so physically down??