I think one of the differences is that a lot of you think in the end if it doesn't work out, there is someone else out there for you. I don't subscribe to that phylosophy as I believe one marriage one time til death due you part. So because of that, I feel like if things don't work with my W, thats it. I had my shot and lost and I hate to think like that. I don't want that to be my future.

For what it is worth,

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...