I think one of the differences is that a lot of you think in the end if it doesn't work out, there is someone else out there for you. I don't subscribe to that phylosophy as I believe one marriage one time til death due you part. So because of that, I feel like if things don't work with my W, thats it. I had my shot and lost and I hate to think like that. I don't want that to be my future.
For what it is worth,
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...