I have no question that they (a lot of our wives) want the attention from men. I think it makes them feel good. They feel like crap in general right now. They know that they are tearing apart their families, treating their husbands like crap, feel trapped in marriages they wish they could leave, are holding onto tons of resentment and piles of guilt and selfishness. That's why they feel justified in doing things that make them feel good.
I just don't think that means there is an OM. Doesn't mean there isn't...or won't ever be. I just think there are other possibilities.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.