I almost wish there was an OM, it would make this clearer for me. She is definately in some sort of MLC, I see it when at family parties, she hangs out with her nieces and their friends. She is all about herself right now, even leaving the kids with me so she can go party with FEMALE co-workers (again confirmed by me because they call to arrange nights out when I answer the phone)(Unless of course W has a huge network of people covering for her rendevous with OM). She has a hard time with stress in general, and her going out is to forget the causes of stress and get away from it. And remember I did get an email out of the blue from the only person I thought could be an OM telling me he is trying to get her to reconcile with me. Her number of text messages has drastically decreased, and she is home more often now than before.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
