I wouldn't close the door on the possibility of OM, but if she's anything like my W she could just be really all about herself and wishing that she was 19 again. A night out with kid, acting like a kid herself is probably pretty appealing.
I think there's a hint of MLC in every WAW. If you start thinking that there's OM it will make it harder to go into your interactions with her "acting as if."
Maybe a night out with a "have fun" from the hubby is just what she needs.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.