How do I go dark while living in the same home. There will be a time before she actually moves out. Do I move out of the room tonight? Do I spend more time out taking care of me and less with the children?

Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1