HiLL: i want to ask you something...?. had you said to your h your needs for more affective actitude...?!!... i am really similar as you in this point, and telling him that this actitude helps me to feel more sure and confortable with the R had helped me a lot...!1... now he is very very affective, even more than me, and yes, this helps me a lot not to think too much in the past, OW, etc...!!... i think it isbc al we had lived in our R, we need a greater dosis of affection and reasurance, and telling them this doesnt hurt anybody, specially if you focur your need to both of you, not OW at all...!!... andrea
