Well, H hacked my email accounts. He sounds...astonished and vindicated (?)... I am sorry this has happened. Because I am sure he will make it now "you had an affair too" and will not pay attention to dates etc...
I had told him, if you guys remember, that I had found someone and felt how to be loved and cared for is and that I gave that up for this second chance. Back then he didnt ask any questions, he thought I was making it up... Well, no.