Congrats on your new thread! Racing to the therapist this am but will be back to you soon!
Currently reading "The Heart of the Soul" by Gary Zucav-yes, I know you mentioned him before.
Since this journey is OUR journey-not just the MLCers-this is just the perfect time to explore our emotional selves.
I`m really trying to figure how I enable H`s anger-what we`re feeding off(or have fed of) in each other. How I can change that in me for this and all my other relationships. Yeah, that may mean him not being able to live with me any longer but that`s HIS decision to make.
Can you set boundaries on your H`s behaviour without getting straight to the point of "I can`t live like this anymore"
ANd yes, I know you may not be able to be very specific.
This is a huge learning about love for our kids too.