Thought hard about it- decided no.Better to leave him to come to me if and when.Any communication now would be strained.My daughter today dropped the bomb that her 14 year marriage to a kind and loving man, whom I am very fond of, is over.He has left at her request and is broken hearted.I know that my experiences have made her cynical. There are tears on my pillow again just as I was finding peace. Such is life.