Aww Fixer, don't let life pass you by while you're waiting on your W. Get busy doing things with your D11, have some fun! See things you want to see, do things you want to do. Your W can choose to come with you, or not, but don't let that stop you from living your life to the fullest! If you're sitting around gloomy and being a worry wart how is that attractive to your W or your D11? Just as important, don't let D11 be deprived of having family fun with you and doing cool stuff with her dad.
One of the things I am grateful for from living thru this is that I made some cool plans for things that H would never want to do anyway so I just went ahead and did some without him.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
