4) Get over their shame, embarrassment, and egos enough to draw up the courage to come back......
that's where some of them get hung up. Their egos can't survive what they've done, and so they move on to avoid the shame and embarrassment. This is where the LBS has to demonstrate unconditional love for the S without condoning or liking the actions for the S.
Spot on. I actually do love my W (surprise ) but I definitely do not love how she's handled this sitch.
) but I definitely do not love how she's handled this sitch.
