I am so happy to see you at this point of acceptance and (dare I say?) contentment - at least you do sound much more content than I have ever heard you. I think you have come to the realization that your H is the kind of person who is better off finding his own way in his own time, rather than being led, or even gently persuaded. Even if this is your last thread, I hope you will come back and offer your wisdom and encouragement to others.
