LL..you are so wise......it will take all of us different times in our r to figure out the things that you have already done....then it might feel like the "real healing" process is working. So much is foccused on the past..the whys..we can't change yesterday and we don't know about tomorrow..we only have today to do something about it!!

Keep up your great tools of what is working...you have a great talent for helpng others see things that are right there.

Take care
Sue