WAW and the husband that wants her back.

[Dia]

Lots of people read but don't comment. She's going back and forth because she's feeling back and forth and yes, it suck, suck, suck, suckity-sucks. That's why we have to detach so the rollercoaster doesn't kill us. That's also why we say 'Believe none of what they say (like the apt listing), and only half of what they do."

Not like I'm an expert, mind you, or even good at the whole waiting/patience/not pursuing thing. (eye roll at self)

Take the good and blow off the bad.

You got to kiss her on the cheek? Bonus!!

Apartment listing? Pffft, no big deal. If she asks you if you saw it, give her a very light, short and casual answer, "Yep."

Also, expect that if there's some warmth or closeness, if you get a little close - they will retreat afterwards and do something distancing. The closeness increases their fear/discomfort, hence the distancing act. If you get mad or upset at the distancing act, they will retreat even further or even get hostile.

Make sense?