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I fear surrendering to that mindset before I get what I need to move forward.



T2,

what if you choose not to look at it as "surrendering" and just looked instead at it as taking the opportunity.

I also was waiting to "get what I need" to move forward...had it set in my mind that I'd move forward when...

h finally stopped letting me wonder what nights he would actually sleep here..

then it was

when he would get rid of the apartment all together...

then it was

when ow sells her house (I've decided that really doesn't matter anymore she or any other woman could live anywhere)

then it was

when HE starts asking me to go out

then it was

when HE asks me to wear my rings again (as you see I got tired of waiting so gave them to him and then he put them on me)

point is there'll alays be a "what I need to move forward" if we keep depending on THEM to do or say something to lead us there.

LL